You don’t have to walk through infertility alone
I’m Allison, a nurse and writer who’s navigated infertility myself. I share stories, guidance, and grounded support for every path through infertility — the hopeful ones, the uncertain ones, and the ones still unfolding
Hi, I’m Allison Flynn Becker
I’m a nurse and writer who’s spent nearly two decades caring for women and families in moments of vulnerability and change.
Then, in my mid-30s, I found myself on the other side of the experience.
When I went through infertility myself, everything I thought I understood about care, patience, and hope was tested. I navigated years of treatments, losses, questions, and quiet waiting, and I learned what it feels like to want answers no one can promise — and to slowly find steadier ground.
Now, I’m building on my experience to write a book that offers what I needed during that time: stories that feel like companionship, and guidance that feels steady and human.
I hope my work reminds you: you don’t have to walk this alone.
Here are some of my credentials at-a-glance:
Registered Nurse, trained at New York University and working in women’s & children’s health for nearly 20 years
Master’s in Nursing Education from Monmouth University
Recipient of Monmouth’s Library Research Award for excellence in research and writing
Certificate in Professional Writing from UC Berkeley Extension
Published health writer for brands including Healthgrades, EBSCO Health, FlexFits, Ro, and MotherLove Herbal Company
The book you need
on your infertility journey
After navigating my own infertility experience — the waiting, the loss, the hope, the uncertainty — I found myself wishing for something I couldn’t quite find: a place where the emotional reality of the journey was held with care, and where the clinical side was explained with compassion rather than overwhelm.
So I’m writing a book that offers what I needed then.
It weaves together…
Stories from people who have taken many different paths to try to grow their families
Perspectives from medical professionals and experts
Reflections from my years in women’s health and my own personal infertility experience
Rather than offering quick fixes or definitive answers, this book sits with the complexity of infertility: the grief that doesn’t always have language, the identity shifts, the strain and deepening of relationships, the quiet courage of continuing forward when things are uncertain.
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My writing
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